Need to know how to let a girl know you like her?  Firstly, don’t try to rationalize the whole thing with her – Many guys these days try to come up with some kind of “romantic” way of expressing their love for the girl like you would probably see in one of those cheesy movies.  Then they connect with her and have this major conversation where they tell her precisely how they feel for her.  They are generally so anxious about the whole thing that they mumble through their words and merely seem like a bumbling fool.

You really must stay away from this for at least 2 good reasons.

The first reason this is not really recommended is because you’re essentially approaching it from a perspective that you have to make a case for liking her.  This sort of behavior is just one other way of trying to win her over and show her what an excellent man you are.  You are still putting her up on a pedestal and that is not attractive to girls..  It is fine to just like a woman and not having to justify it.

And second, you truly are not even there with her in any respect because you are too busy being stressed and churning over what exactly you will tell her.  You are lost in your own head, which really is not attractive to women in any way.  Do the contrary of this and actually be there wholly with her.

You’re possibly thinking that this is all hippy-dippy rubbish, but you would be shocked at how very real this is.  You can start doing this by concentrating on your body.  Can you feel how your feet feel in your shoes or how your butt feels as you’re resting in a chair??  What about the way your whole body begins to feel when you’re with the girl?  Are you beginning to see how this can really enhance things when you are dealing with women?

I hope you are beginning to understand this.

So, that’s what you are not supposed to do, but what else could you do to let her know that you do not just want to be friends?  Here is how to let a girl know you like her the proper way.

An SOI is an expression that’s short for Statement of Intent.  This term is employed by Pickup Artists (PUA’s).  The term was created by Wayne Elise (also known as “Juggler”) and is essentially just an easy technique to let a woman know that you think she is hot.  A simple SOI should go something like this:

Her: My last rehearsal is tomorrow night.  I’m so excited about my dancing performance on Thursday.

You:  You sure appear to be extremely committed to doing your best with your performance.  I think that is really sexy.

The key component here is the term “sexy.”  This lets her know you do not see her as a friend.  This is not a very loud thing, but it tells her you want her and it lets her know that she can start flirting with you.  Simply do this casualy and don’t try to make it into some type of serious thing.  The point here is to be subtle.  Don’t fret, she won’t miss it.

One other strategy to show a girl that you like her is to be fully straightforward and genuine with her.

As an example, maybe you are spending time with her and one of those quiet moments decends on both of you.  You want to do what a man does at this point and simply take her and say something like “I really just want to kiss you now.”  You will want to follow this up by kissing her.  Not a peck on the cheek, but a real kiss.  This takes a lot of courage, but women really like it if you do this.

The major difference between this and the clumsy, worried method above, is that, first of all, it is not some kind of rehearsed trick you sort of stumble through.  And the second thing, this is something which a real man would do.  You are honestly letting her know that you want to kiss her, not just becoming all tense about whether or not she’ll say yes when you ask her to “perhaps maybe think about” being your girlfriend.  You are fully secure with your desires.  This type of move also shows her that you have lots of follow-through and that you pursue your dreams.  Women really think this is appealing.

So, that is how to let a girl know you like her.  The critical factor here is to make certain that it is really casual and not some kind of big deal.  When you just act like it is the most common and natural thing there is, she will handle it so and follow suit.

If you found this article helpful and want to learn more ways to improve your success with women, check out How to Let a Girl Know You Like Her and Let Her Know Your Feelings.